Tuesday, 26 October 2010

An ABC of OCC - D

D is for delight -it's difficult for us to imagine the delight needy children feel when they receive a shoebox. Here in the UK, our children get so much and not a birthday or a Christmas goes by without them getting more stocks of toys and electronic equipment to pack into their own bedrooms.

Imagine being a child who has never had the luxury of their own room; or who has to share a toothbrush with eleven others in their dormitory. Or that you had never been given anything - other than food and water to keep you alive.  Imagine then that you were given something of your own. It has a lid and it is yours and all the things within it...you are then beginning to understand the Power of the Shoebox.

In 1999, a Samaritan's Purse team were in Honduras where Hurrican Mitch had struck the year before and rendered many people homeless and in great need. After distributing shoeboxes to the children, a pastor among the team was moved to write this poem I use it a lot and I thought I would share it with you:

Our Lord, Creator and Sustainer of all our lives, we come before you today to pray for the children;
Who sneak lollipops before supper,
Who erase holes in math’s workbooks,
Who can never find their shoes.
                                               
And we pray for those who stare at photographs from behind barbed wire,
Who can’t bound down the street in a new pair of trainers,
Who never “counted potatoes”,
Who were born in places we wouldn’t be caught dead,
Who never go to the circus,
Who live their lives in an X-rated world.

We pray for children, who bring us sticky kisses and fistfuls of dandelions,
Who hug us in a hurry and forget their lunch money.

And we pray for those who never get dessert,
Who have no safe blanket to drag behind them,
Who watch their parents watch them die,
Who can’t find any bread to steal,
Who don’t have any rooms to clean up,
Whose pictures aren’t on anybody’s refrigerator,
Whose monsters are very, very real.

We pray for children, who spend all their pocket money before Tuesday,
Who throw tantrums in the supermarket and pick at their food,
Who like ghost stories,
Who shove dirty clothes under the bed and never rinse out the bath,
Who get visits from the tooth fairy,
Who don’t like to be kissed outside school,
Who squirm in church and scream into the phone,
Whose tears we sometimes laugh at and whose smiles can make us cry.

And we pray for those, whose nightmares come in the daytime,
Who will eat anything their hands can find,
Who have never seen a dentist,
Who aren’t spoiled by anybody,
Who go to bed hungry and cry themselves to sleep.
Who live and move, but have no being.

We pray for children who want to be carried and for those who must,
For children we do not allow to be born and for those who are born but not allowed to truly live,
For those we never give up on and for those who don’t get a second chance,
For those we smother and for those who will grab the hand of anybody kind enough to offer it.
We pray for all those children whom Jesus loves and especially for those who haven’t heard.
O dear God, forgive us. Amen


Monday, 18 October 2010

An ABC of OCC - C

C is for craziness. Over the years, we have had so many wonderful things donated in the shoeboxes - people are so generous, but there have been some very strange ones too. There was the time in the early days when a guy enthusiastically brought down bags of clothes to for us to send to Romanian orphans only to come back moments later in a panic when he realised he had left his weeks laundry too.

We once had a whole egg and a pack of kippers and it is not unusual to have jars of mayonnaise and tins of soup in shoeboxes. While you can see why someone might think that a needy person might want soup, more puzzling was the TV remote control  - if it was a mistake it must have caused some family arguments! We also struggled to find a reason why someone might send a microwave manual to a needy child for Christmas!

But perhaps the strangest was the dead budgie found in Chesterfield some years ago. After some thought we realised that the bird had been put into the shoebox for burial and there had been a dreadful mix up.....

Thursday, 14 October 2010

An ABC of OCC - B

B is for babies..it is great that folk are so thoughtful when it comes to giving shoeboxes and many ask us why we don't ask for baby boxes. Indeed, some folk just go ahead and make them! However, there are real reasons why we don't appeal for them. In the early days of OCC, we did used to collect and send baby boxes, but our partners told us that they found that they were often left over at the end of a distribution and they had to go out and deliver them by hand, which took time and of course, depleted funds. It was concluded that mothers did not want to bring the babies out in the cold weather and also, in war-torn countries there just weren't that many babies about. It is also an ironic fact that the smallest humans on the planet need huge amounts of 'stuff'. So one nappy in a shoebox won't make a huge amount of difference.


If you have sent a baby box in the past it would still have been given to a baby, but we do ask that you send only to the 2-4, 5-9 &10-14 age ranges as recommended on the leaflet.


(I was sorely tempted to illustrate this post with a picture of the most beautiful baby on the planet, my granddaughter - 4 month old Martha. But this one taken in 2007 by June Vasey in East Lothian is probably more appropriate!)

Tuesday, 12 October 2010

Getting the money together...

How many shoeboxes am I going to do this year? Well, it depends on how much money I can get together -as each box costs £2.50. 

But look what I saw when I got into my car this afternoon....that's 10p for a start. In our house loose change seems to fall out of pockets and roll under furniture never to be seen again (except when I clean things, which is'nt very often), so perhaps I should start some serious dusting.

Perhaps if I collect money lying around our house - I will save enough for a few shoeboxes. I'll add every 5p I get to the fund too. Also, I have heard about a great fundraiser called 'Count Your Blessings'...that should beef up my funds a bit!

Friday, 8 October 2010

OCC 20 Years Ago

I have been asked to create a PowerPoint presentation on the 20th Anniversary of OCC - so I have again been digging through the archives. It reminded me of a conversation I had with one of the members of that first convoy who told me that the shoeboxes almost didn't happen!

Dave Cooke had the initial idea to take a vehicle of aid to Romania after the pictures of the orphanages were shown on the TV in 1990. His friends rolled their sleeves up and appealed for aid and it all came flooding in thanks to appeal on local radio. Dave's sister, Jan, however thought that it would be a great idea for her own children - Alex & Peter (all grown up now!) to put presents into a box - rather than the donations going into a big anonymous pile. Thus the shoebox idea was born. She told co-founder Dai Hughes who being 'media savvy' could see what a great idea it was and encouraged the first collection of shoeboxes.

Some of the other team members however, felt that shoeboxes would take up too much room and not allow for what they saw as more important aid such as medical equipment. A great deal of negotiation and 'heated debates' went on before it was agreed that the boxes would go. As it happens, so many trucks were donated that there was room for everything. On such small details whole movements are founded....81 million children who have received shoeboxes since are glad that they decided to put those little boxes on board!

Tuesday, 5 October 2010

An ABC of OCC - A

A is for Animals. Animals - (not real ones of course) are really popular in the shoeboxes under the category of 'something to love' . We have seen teenage boys crumble into gooey smiles when they find a cuddly teddy in their boxes - so its good to find some sort of cuddly animal to put into your shoebox. One thing that we wouldn't recommend however, are realistic looking snakes or spiders - they could really frighten a small child in Africa - (they frighten me.... )

A cause of some debate last year was how far this should be taken - does this include plastic lions and tigers? Perhaps not advisable for the hot countries, but I would'nt extend that to exclude cartoon elephants or Baloo the bear type toys - if it does'nt look like its wild counterpart - put it in.

Friday, 1 October 2010

Busy Week

On Wednesday I did a presentation to 300 pupils at a local school Castell Alun.  To do this I had to bring 'Mungo' out from his sleepy bed and ask him to perform again. Mungo is actually my daughter Tali's bear who thought he could blissfully retire since she'd left home. But I discovered that he he was a real 'looky likey' for the OCC storybook Mungo - so he was pressed into service. If you've not seen the Mungo Story Book I would urge you to get a copy - its really great for the young ones and big kids like me!